CONSCIOUSLY CREATING RELATIONSHIPS
An acquaintance the other day asked me what I do, and I told her that I’m a Marriage and Family Counselor, as well as a Life Coach.
Then she asked an interesting question: “Is compromise the key to a happy marriage?”
At first I was tempted to say yes.
Compromise is certainly one part of two different people sharing a life together.
We can’t do everything we want whenever we want it; we have to find ways of adapting to each other’s needs and inclinations.
But thinking about it a little more closely, I instead said an emphatic, “No.” Compromise is not really the key.
Compromise is kind of like when one person wants a room painted yellow, the other wants it painted blue, and we compromise and get green – but neither of us may even like green.
Compromise is sometimes win/win, sometimes not. There are certainly times when we compromise, but it isn’t the driving force of a great relationship.
What is the driving force of a great relationship?



[Today’s Archive was originally in TTP on January 18, 2021, two days before the traitorous installation of a thief as Ersatz President. Now this November we face the theft of the Senate and House unleashing another Hate-America nightmare. Many TTPers told me when this was first written how helpful it was to them. May this be helpful to TTPers now and in the coming days.] 
[This Monday’s Archive was originally in TTP on May 15, 2015. It called for another John Wilkes, “Champion of English Freedom” as his statue on Fetter Street in London declares, to run for President as the Champion of American Freedom. One month later, on June 16, Donald Trump accompanied by Melania, rode the elevator in Trump Tower to the lobby to formally announce his presidential candidacy. Some of his advisors, I later learned, read TTP. I’ve often wondered since if this essay helped make his decision. Regardless, there’s a message here to all of us as the midterms loom.]
Western civilization is often defined by its accomplishments. Democracy, individual rights, religious liberty, and scientific advancement are all commonly associated with the West.
If you’re a Baby Boomer and a socially-conservative Christian, and you don’t understand young men nowadays, I’m writing for you.
Thirteen years ago, a 29-year-old government contractor named Ed Snowden gave a reporter proof that the U.S. government was secretly collecting the phone records of millions of ordinary Americans.
The world right now is in a bit of a precarious
We’ve been looking at the nutritional components humans need to survive. These are usually listed as Proteins, Fats, and Carbs, but I’ll repeat a more accurate description that I posted two weeks ago (in no order of priority – they are all essential):


